Thursday, August 8, 2013
Since we decided that we would not be going overseas (to stay) in the near future, we have both had to seek out a new place in the world. We need an identity here as well as an income. For six years or more our identity has been "Pre-field missionary," and we gave up another life to be that; a house, good, or at least adequately paying jobs, schools, etc. Since then we've been nomads, one foot out the door at all times, borrowed house, temporary/occasional jobs. That's not enough anymore. It was never really enough, but because (we thought) it was short term, and God provided in other ways, we were satisfied with it. It was even exciting. Now, Todd needs to rebuild his career, and he can't go back to the main one he left. So, what are we going to do?
Todd took a job working nights at a convenience store. It doesn't pay much, but it's a job and he thought it would leave him flexible for other things. Then he also went back to work at the amusement park. That also doesn't pay much, but at least it's somewhat in his field (sound)- he's a Supervisor in the entertainment department, and he has a lot of fun and a nice tan (on his face anyway). He is also still participating in the Ministry Apprenticeship Program at our church, and currently having mentoring meetings on the subject of coaching others.
He's also exhausted, and it's not enough.
He spent the spring in training (mostly unpaid) to drive a school bus for a nearby district as a substitute. A few weeks ago, we was offered a permanent route. That's pretty exciting because though it's still part-time, it pays nicely, and the schedule allows him free time for other things, too. School bus driving is not what Todd always dreamed of growing up to do, but not many people can say that they are doing what they always dreamed of doing. One of those other things is a seasonal leadership job that would go through the end of the year, but he hasn't accepted it yet, so I'm not going to publish it here.
We are excited about God's provision for our family. If you pray for us, please pray for Todd to have skills at juggling all these various responsibilities.
And then there's me.
I am also working on training for a new position, but I am a long way off from it becoming paid employment, so I am not going to describe that here. I am however working on a mountain of other new projects, and I thought it would be fun to share about some of those. They are all meaningful things that I'm pretty excited about, and I could use your help with most of them.
https://class.perspectives.org/psp/about.html and please, let me know if you want to help or take the class. I've become friends with the coordinator of the Perspectives Course taking place in Potsdam this fall, and we can sit in on a few classes up there for a preview. And please pray for me and my developing team!
Another thing I have gotten involved in that makes an eternal impact is Better Way Imports.
Better Way is a home party-like company. I am helping to market fair-trade items made by women who have been trafficked. It is a ministry as well as a small income stream. You can help by scheduling or attending a party- which I prefer to call an Awareness Event- or making a purchase. It helps to get the word out about human trafficking, and it provides women an alternate way of making a living. The items I market are unique- bags, jewelry, stationery, journals and other items made from recycled fabric or textiles, sustainably made paper, etc. It makes me very happy to be involved in something that helps women and children in far-off places, many of whom are victims through no fault of their own, and are finding love through the programs that rescue them and train them in these enterprises. As a plus, the items are beautiful! You can check them out at my facebook business page,Better Way Freedom Fighter- Tricia.
And if you're a fan of the chocolate home parties I was doing last year, don't worry- I'm still available for that, too.
In addition to projects 1-4 above, we're about to start another year of homeschooling and we are in high gear now that The Little Princess is 6 and in the first grade (she got about halfway through traditional "first grade" materials last year, so don't ask her what grade she's going into- it confuses her) and reportable to New York State. I don't really care about NYS- the point is the "baby" of the family is doing school, too. I am teaching two classes at our local co-op this year (8th grade General Science and high school cooking+) and tutoring one boy in Chinese along with my own boy- all of which is a new experience as I haven't been lead teacher before. For any of my readers who are classical home educators, I've got a lower grammar students, an upper grammar student, a dialectic student and a rhetoric level student. So, as a friend of mine says, I have a lot of plates spinning. I definitely drop one from time to time. Although there are moments when I feel too busy, I mostly feel occupied, in a good way. Most of this is exciting, can't-wait-to-see-what-God's-gonna-do stuff. Some of it even lets me feel like I am finally using my college degrees (International Politics and Sustainable Development & Missions and Intercultural Studies), which is nice.
I'm happy to be able to share this information. Back in March when we went before our church to explain our change in plans, Pastor Ken asked me what's next for us, I didn't have an answer. At ALL. We were still wrestling with grief. And of course we still are- one doesn't set aside 16 years (today's our 16th anniversary, and we were headed for the mission field all along) of working for one goal overnight. It hurts and we don't understand. So of course it helps to plant a new vision. We've been encouraged by others' who've laid a hand on our arm and told us their story of loss and re-direction. I feel confident that we haven't really lost anything; it just doesn't look like we hoped it would. It's gonna be ok; maybe even more than ok, especially you walk alongside us. Thanks.